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Raising little Westies, and life as parent of a special needs son
As I’ve already mentioned, picking a daycare or pre-school for your ASD child can be made more difficult if you have already been through the process of selecting one for a neurotypical child.
The thing is, it seems like picking a “big school” – which in NSW a child should be enrolled in for Kindergarten during January or February if they will turn by the end of June – is even harder again.
Chances are you already assume that the school your elder children are going to won’t know how to handle a kid “on the spectrum”. Even though most of them seem to have kids with some amount of ritalin-controlled ADHD, and doctors tell us that ADHD is “one aspect of the spectrum”, aspies or “asd” kids don’t quite fit in!
And anyway, if you have any doubts that your aspie or asd child will be able to assert themself in a mainstream kindergarten…. well, you aren’t in a hurry to go there are you?
It’s traumatic enough for “normal kids”.
Thankfully in NSW at least a lot of information is on the internet. Somewhere. You just have to find it, of course! A lot of what is there can be found on the state governments’ schools website, specifically the supporting students section which includes Disability Programs and Behaviour programs. It seems these two programs do actually overlap: but past experience from children of friends shows that not every school is all that great at putting them into practice – such as schools who see time-outs as appropriate responses to kids on the spectrum who would like nothing more than to be put in a room by themself, with a shiny spinny toy, for the whole school term.
The problem is, “the department” expect you to “trust their experts”.
So off goes an email to the relevant contact person(that’s email btw). All I can say is the response is “we’ll get back to you”.
I’m one myself, so I’ll give the public servants a bit of a break. I told them already that I won’t let them take too long. I’m not happy to leave it all in the laps of a faceless “regional placement panel”. If a website can say “Placement subject to regional placement panel procedures”, then why can’t they show us the procedures?
Give me the procedures, and I’ll get off your back. Even if the procedure is “the worst x kids go to ABC school, the next y kids go to DEF school, and the rest take their chances….” – then just tell me.
I even had one admin lady (yes I guess she’s an overworked, non-specialised) in one of the schools we’re looking at say “oh, your pre-school will sort all that out”. How much will that help me when I go to enroll BTB Fan in Kindergarten in October and they’ve never heard of him??
Reproduced from the now-closed autism united ning website